Forget the Dream House: These 3 Alternatives Will Buy You a Dream Life Instead
The young couple had their eyes glued to the computer screen. The beautiful home staring back at them made their hearts flutter. It was ready for move-in, in the right school district, and checked many of the other items on their “dream home” checklist.
“Let’s move fast! Call the agent so we can schedule a showing and make an offer before someone else does!”
Yes, it was a stretch on their budget. But the interest on the mortgage was historically low at 4%. With a 20% down payment, their loan would still fall below their pre-approved amount from the bank. The interest was deductible, so the extra expense would actually “save” money on their taxes. And it was certainly better than throwing money away on rent, right?
And beyond all of that, they deserved a wonderful home. They both worked stressful but lucrative jobs. And with plans for kids and a family, didn’t it make sense to buy the perfect nest for a growing family? After all, this home would produce many happy memories for years. And happiness and family come first.
Housing Dream or Nightmare?
This isn’t an abnormal scenario for young home buyers today. The details will vary, of course. But the common themes are these:
- Stretching financially to buy the right home
- Justifying the “investment” for health, happiness, and visions of family bliss
- Shackling yourself financially to one housing decision for MANY years
As you might imagine from my title, I don’t see this as a dream scenario. In fact, especially for home buyers in their 20s and 30s, I see it as a nightmare.
It’s a nightmare because this couple missed out financially on MUCH smarter housing opportunities. With a little patience, creativity, and forward thinking, they could have used smarter housing choices to build enormous wealth. And this wealth would have created incredible life options for themselves.
But instead, they missed out. They’re stuck with their dream house. And while they may enjoy the home, their finances and careers are fixed on a one-way path.
Freedom or a Rut—It’s Your (Housing) Choice
What’s the typical path look like after that big home purchase?
Work, mortgage payment, work, mortgage payment, work, mortgage payment.
Forget those youthful dreams of freedom, excitement, flexibility, travel, and doing work that matters. Practicality rules the day for the next few decades. Yes, you may be comfortable. But “comfortable” over a long period of time is another word for a rut.
Robert Kiyosaki famously calls this rut the rat race. One of my favorite financial books, Your Money or Your Life, calls it “making a dying.”
The rut makes your choices for you. You work a job because it earns the most money. Your bills get paid. You enjoy your Netflix subscription on the weekends. And you save that 10% in a 401k so that you can retire someday.
Not awful, right? But is it excellent? Does it make you excited to get up in the morning? Are you actually doing what matters in your life? Or does your work-mortgage rut consume all of your precious time?
My mission as a writer and the purpose of this article is to help you avoid big financial ruts. Money may not be the most important thing in life, but it sure does keep us from the things that DO matter.
So, it makes sense to learn to win with your finances. And your housing choice is the best place to start.
In the rest of this article, I’ll share several smarter, investment-oriented housing choices you can make:
- Live-in flips
- House hacking
- Live-in then rent
Along the way, I’ll also show you the enormous positive difference these choices could make in your life.
But first, let’s look at the true costs of purchasing a dream home.
The True Cost of Your Dream Home
One of the most popular articles ever on my personal blog was called “How to Get Rich With Embarrassing Old Cars and Ugly Old Houses.” The main point was to pay attention to your big expenses like housing and automobiles. But the real lesson of the article was something called opportunity cost. Opportunity cost simply means:
One dollar spent today loses its earning ability forever.
So, opportunity cost tells you to spend less today and invest more—at least if you want to build wealth. And it turns out housing is one of our biggest expenses. It leaks more of our personal dollars than almost any other source.
A U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics report for 2015 shows that 19.2% of the average U.S. household’s expenses were dedicated to shelter. Canadian households’ average shelter expenses were even higher at 28.9% of household expenses. And many high-priced locations get worse than that.
This means if you’re serious about winning with your money, you should focus a lot of energy on either reducing or optimizing the return on your housing expense. And this is especially true during the first 10-15 years of your working career.
The question, of course, is HOW? Which housing choices will waste the least money and build the most wealth?
I’m glad you asked! Let’s see.
Treat Your Home Like an Investment
Unfortunately, most people make the goal of their housing choice to find, well, a home. That was the mistake the couple made in the beginning of the article. They bought their dream home, but it was not a good investment compared to their alternatives.
It’s not that they couldn’t EVER have their dream home. They just tried to get it too soon. Remember, it’s about timing and opportunity cost!
The couple didn’t realize that a home where they sleep at night could also be an investment that makes them money.
And I know what you’re thinking: Your home is important. It’s the relaxing place you come after work. It’s a haven. Your kids need a safe, comfortable place. It contributes to your happiness.
Come on, Chad! Do I really have to sacrifice my happiness by turning my housing into an investment?
But this is where thinking different comes in. You don’t have to make your home an investment for your entire life. Even 5-10 years of prioritizing investing instead of finding the perfect dream home can make all the financial difference in the world.
Just like budgeting, saving, and other forms of investing, the so-called “sacrifice” you make with housing pays enormous dividends for the rest of your life. And if you make it a game, turning your home into an investment can also be a lot of fun!
I know firsthand. I’ve been having fun with it for 15 years!
Now, let’s move on to the first of five smart home ownership strategies.
1. Get Rich With Live-In Flips
Two friends of mine, Mr. and Mrs. 1500 from the blog 1500days.com, are millionaires. They trace a big portion of their wealth back to their choice to do a series of live-in flips with their homes.
What is a live-in flip?
It’s simply buying and moving into a house that needs work, living there for at least 2 years (I’ll explain why in a minute), and selling at a higher price for a tax-free profit.
In the United States (and also in other countries like Canada and the U.K.), homeowners who follow these rules can sell their house for a profit without paying taxes on the gain. This tax exemption is capped in the United States at a gain of up to $250,000 for an individual or $500,000 for a couple filing jointly. The IRS rules also state that you must live in the home for at least 2 out of the 5 years before you sell it.
Let’s look at an example.
Example of a Live-In Flip
Let’s say you buy an older house in a good neighborhood for $200,000 that needs about $50,000 in upgrades and repairs. You use a popular Fannie Mae Homestyle Renovation Loan to fund 95% of your purchase PLUS remodel costs.
In other words, you borrow $237,500 out of the $250,000 total costs. Cash out of your pocket is only $12,500 plus closing costs. Let’s call your cash investment $15,000.
You move into the house after closing. It’s livable, but the kitchen, baths, layout, flooring, paint, and cosmetics are all dated. Over the next 6 months, you live with dust while you and the contractors make the house beautiful.
Then for the final 1.5 years, you enjoy your beautiful, renovated home. And right after two years from the original purchase, you put the house on the market and sell it for $350,000.
Ignoring commissions and closing costs to keep things simple, you make a $100,000 gain ($350,000 – $250,000). And this money goes into your bank account with no taxes owed!
Use Live-In Flips to Accelerate Your Financial Freedom Plans
You just saved $100,000 after tax in two years. And this does not include the equity from your down payment and any principal pay down of your mortgage. So, what’s next?
The live-in flip worked once, so why not do another? And another? Six years later, you might even own your home free and clear of debt. Now you could relax and stay put in your favorite home forever.
Or you might do several live-in flips until you’ve built $500,000 dollars in wealth using your housing. Then you could invest like blogger Jim Collins in simple stock index funds. With the addition of other savings you’ve built over the years, you might already be ready to achieve financial independence.
You could also follow my favorite path and use the $500,000 of wealth to buy a small, easy-to-mange portfolio of rental properties for your early retirement. With the right rentals, a portfolio of only five units could produce $3,000-4,000 per month in net, spendable income. How would that monthly income change your life?
With your life now simplified financially, anything is possible. You can do what matters. Travel. Start a job or business that you love. You could even live in Ecuador with you family for a year (like I’m doing in 2017).
The main point is that an efficient wealth building tool like the live-in flip shortens the time to your financial goals. It does this by turning a typical liability, your housing, and converting it to an investment.
But live-in flips aren’t the only awesome housing tool! Now let’s look at choice #2—house hacking.
2. Live For Free & Build Wealth With House Hacking
Soon after graduating from college, I began a business buying and selling real estate. Things weren’t always easy. Cash flow was up and down like a roller coaster for several years.
Intuitively, I knew that I needed to keep my housing expense to a minimum so that I could survive. I started by living for free in the spare bedroom of my friend and business partner’s house. When I had cramped his style too much, I decided I needed to go off on my own. But I still wanted to live cheap or even for free.
My solution? House hacking!
House hacking is a strategy where you use your residence to generate extra rental income. Typically this means living in a duplex, triplex, or 4-plex building, and then renting out the spare units. But creative house hackers also rent out spare bedrooms in houses, garage apartments, basement apartments, small guest cottages, boats, RVs, yurts (yes, it’s true), and mobile homes.
If you can dream it and your local government will allow it, you can rent it. And that extra income can cover some or all of your housing expense.
Let me share an example of my first house hack.
My First House Hack
My hometown of Clemson, South Carolina is a small university town. A friend of mine told me about a run-down 4-plex property that was vacant, neglected, and recently foreclosed by a local bank. It was so ugly, someone had spray painted “Merry Christmas” across the entire front!
Where others saw ugly and smelly, I saw home. I bought the property using a combination of local bank and private loans, fixed it up, and moved in. After six months and with the building beautiful and fully rented, I refinanced with a long-term, owner-occupant mortgage (this was a BRRRR deal before I even knew the term!).
For full details of my deal plus step by step instructions to find, finance, and analyze your own house hacking deal, see Brandon Turner’s awesome article on house hacking 101 here on BiggerPockets.
But for now, let’s look at the financial results my house hack gave me.
Financial Results of House Hacking
After I rented my 4-plex and refinanced with a long-term mortgage, here were the financial results:
- $0 out of my own pocket (because of the refinance)
- $1,200 per month in rental income ($400 per unit x 3)
- -$1,105 per month in total expenses (includes taxes, insurance, maintenance, vacancy reserves, etc.)
- $95 per month in POSITIVE cash flow
- $35,000 equity ($155,000 new value minus $120,000 total investment)
Not every house hack works out this well. I’ll admit this was a great deal. But the same principle works with any house hack. You can use entrepreneurship, creativity, and rental income to reduce or eliminate your housing payment.
What could you do with the savings from reducing or eliminating your housing payment? Pay off credit card debt or student loans? Start a side-hustle business? Save for a down payment and more real estate (my favorite)?
The answer is all of the above! Reducing your biggest expense opens the door to all sorts of financial opportunities. And house hacking has another huge benefit. After a few years, you can move out of the house hack and keep it as a positive rental property. Because you carefully remodeled it and borrowed safe, owner-occupant financing, the building can turn into an outstanding long-term investment.
Now, let’s look at smart home ownership choice #3‚live-in-then-rent.
3. Live-In-Then-Rent—Turn Your Home Into a Rental
You’re probably beginning to get my pattern now: Don’t just live in a house because it’s beautiful, comfortable, and has nice neighbors (although those are fine). Buy your housing based on its potential investment qualities. Save your traditional dream of home ownership for later in life when you’re wealthy (or never).
The previous two strategies are my go-to recommendations. Live-in flips and house hacks are probably the most profitable ways to own a home. But sometimes neither make sense, either because of personal or market limitations.
So, a third alternative is to buy a house, move into it, and later convert it into a rental. I call this a “live-in-then-rent.”
This is different than a typical housing purchase because it must meet strict financial criteria. No longer is the house affordable because your lender tells you it is. The house is affordable if you could move out, rent it, and still have positive (or reasonable) cash flow.
This means you likely won’t buy the 3,500 square foot luxury home in a fancy neighborhood. Instead, you’ll buy a comfortable, safe, and affordable home where the rent-to-price ratio is more reasonable.
Let me explain with an example of my own live-in-then-rent.
My Live-In-Then-Rent Example (With Before/After Pictures)
Remember my house hack? I loved living in my two bedroom apartment #2. My wife even loved living there for a few years after we got married.
But then we decided to have kids. And for some reason, likely out of irrational animal nesting instincts, we HAD to have a house, a yard, and more space for our soon-to-arrive child.
But we were still on a path to financial independence? So, what to do?
We decided to buy a fixer-upper house in a nice but affordable neighborhood. And by fixer, I mean UGLY. The walls were eaten up by termites, it smelled, the layout was awful, and the crawl space had standing water.
Now, don’t think you need to buy something this bad. But remember? I like houses ugly (and at good prices). The uglier it is, the more likely you’ll make a good deal.
We paid for all of the repairs except painting, which we did ourselves. And then we moved into our nest. Here were the after pictures. It’s not shown here, but within a few years, we also replaced the roof shingles.
For the HGTV remodeling show addicts out there, you may notice that our remodel was not extremely fancy. We did fix all functional issues, including new wiring, plumbing, water issues, refinished floors, etc. But the new cosmetic finishes were basic and functional. This was all about understanding our market and our exit strategy. We planned to rent this house someday after moving out, so we only made repairs that we thought could earn a return on investment.
We loved living in this house (and even consider moving back into it some day), but the important part for this example was its contribution financially. Let’s look at the numbers.
The Financial Results of Our Live-In-Then-Rent House
For many of you who also attempt to buy a fixer-upper as a residence, the best loan options are probably programs like the Fannie Mae Homestyle Loan or theFHA 203k Renovation Loan. These loans allow you to borrow 95% or more of the purchase AND remodel while still getting a low-interest rate and avoiding a second closing for a refinance.
In my case, I was able to negotiate seller financing with a small down payment from the man who sold us the property. Our monthly payment to him was only $400 per month. But we did also invest over $40,000 of our own cash for the renovations.
While living there, we enjoyed a reasonable monthly payment for our budget. But two years later we moved out (we found another fixer upper and we had another baby on the way!), so we rented the house out. The numbers as a self-managed rental looked like this:
$950 per month in rent
– $300 per month in operating expenses (taxes, insurance, maintenance, permits)
-$400 per month mortgage payment
= $250 per month positive cash flow
But the best part of live-in-then-rents is that they usually get better with time (in a good location). By the time our first renter moved out 5 years later, our new rent was $1,200 per month. This little house was turning into a cash cow and another great long-term investment!
Rethink Your Dream Housing
I’ve tried to make a case in this article to turn your housing into an investment instead of simply buying the first “dream house” that comes your way. This is a way to turn your biggest expense (housing) into an asset that makes a profit (or at least reduces expenses).
Is this path for everyone? Of course not. The three strategies I’ve shared require some work to find, fix up, and then cash in on your housing profits.
But these aren’t the only possibilities for smart housing. There are many more variations I couldn’t cover here. In some markets, it might even make sense to simply become a renter for your primary residence and use your down payment and monthly savings to invest in real estate or other assets somewhere else.
The point is to think outside the box. Don’t let society’s pressure to get a “dream house” early in your career trap you. Instead, think smarter and invest in a dreamlife instead!
I hope you’ll choose to make financially smarter housing choices. And I hope you’ll help spread the word! I’m trying to make this concept a movement. Let’s take the message to as many people as possible!
Best of luck!